Showing posts with label respect. Show all posts
Showing posts with label respect. Show all posts

Sunday, May 5, 2013

My Lack of Respect for my husband Led to my Son’s Disrespect

Tips on How to Respect Your Husband Again


Hi Link-up friends!

I want to share a story with you (please don’t judge but pray for my family). Since I started writing this blog I made a vow to always be honest so here we go….

 I have been married to my husband for almost 6 years in May. Since being diagnosed with mental illness it has been difficult for me to respect him, listen to him and quite frankly, tolerate him. My unnecessary outbursts of “please shut up, take your pills and go to sleep, you need help!” Somehow trickled down to my 3 year old who started to say “be quiet daddy” along with other comments that led me to really seek God about my respect for the husband he sent me over 7 years ago. 

My combative ways started to affect the way my son saw his father, which meant I was off the Godly path to uplifting my household.
Here are 3 Ways to gain your husband’s respect again:


  •    Ask for Forgiveness-Be honest about your thoughts and how they have led to your disrespect

  •       Reaffirm to your husband that he is the head of the house (1 Cor. 11:3). Let him know that you respect his decisions although you may not always agree with every decision.


  • Stop bad mouthing your husband to friends, family members and strangers. Start uplifting him when around others and telling them how great of a husband he is (although his change may still be in progress).


Making these simple changes in my life, have made a difference in my relationship. Now, my son respects his father more than ever, because he sees how much I respect my husband. 



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www.happywivesclub.com