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Now, more mothers work (out of the home), then head home to clean, cook, help with homework and find time to have unpleasurable sex with their husband. Why would we not be unhappy? I must admit that my feelings toward my husband are not that different from my friends. Every time I discuss my unhappiness with other Christian women, they just say that things will get better and provide me with endless scriptures. Instead of only providing you with scriptures I also want to give you some practical steps that can be taken to improve the way we feel toward our spouses.
- Write down the positive things about your husband on a note card and refer to it every day!
- Pray for him every day! This is something I stop doing and need to start doing again. (Philippians 1:6, Psalm 119:73, Psalm 37:23,1 Corinthians 1:3).
- When the time is right, discuss your concerns with your husband (the time is never right when you are having an argument).
- Seek counseling and to be fair to your husband, avoid receiving counseling from your local pastor.